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[Life/General] Life sucks sometimes.

I broke up with Grace today.

I don't really know what to say. Things have not been right for awhile. Things were fine when we were friends and first involved, but the more time we spent together, the rougher things got. And after Emma got involved, everything just went to hell. The way she has been treating me, and the way that she has been treating Emma, has been verbally/emotionally abusive and codependent.

And she's come to be aware of it, and wants to work on it, and get better... but I can't be there as anything more than her friend. I have been down this road too many times. I hope that she can get better. I would like to believe she can, and I will help her as much as I am able. But I have literally been in this place too many times, and I can't go through it again. I can't.

I don't know if I will go into more detail or not, but I wanted to get this out here right now. I'm hurting pretty bad. I know Grace is too. It sucks all around. :(

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spitphyre
Nov. 29th, 2011 08:55 am (UTC)
:( I'm sorry to hear that. You made the right decision all things considered but I know that it's not easy. I hope she does continue to get better for her own sake...
epic_cakes
Nov. 29th, 2011 11:35 am (UTC)
You need to look after your own mental health first... ending it was the right thing to do to avoid messing with your head. *hug*
shadowkindrd
Nov. 29th, 2011 02:37 pm (UTC)
*massive huggles*

Take care of yourself first. That's the most important thing.
kaelstra
Nov. 29th, 2011 05:16 pm (UTC)
I'm sorry. Even if it's one of those things where you know its for the best, that doesn't make it hurt any less. Like Cele said, sometimes you just have to look after yourself.

Doesn't make it not suck. I hope you feel better soon.
david_bridger
Nov. 29th, 2011 06:17 pm (UTC)
I'm sorry. Gentle love and hugs. x
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subluxate
Nov. 29th, 2011 08:08 pm (UTC)
*hugs* I'm sorry. That's never easy.
lisaquestions
Nov. 30th, 2011 01:58 am (UTC)
Sympathies. You're doing the right thing by not staying in a relationship, I think. <3
lupagreenwolf
Nov. 30th, 2011 04:01 am (UTC)
***hugs***
these_3_remain
Nov. 30th, 2011 04:28 am (UTC)
I'm so sorry, honey :-( I am glad, though, that you are healthy enough to realize that you've done this before and don't need to do it again. *hugs*
missm1897please
Nov. 30th, 2011 06:01 am (UTC)
I'm so sorry. Breakups suck, even if you know you're doing it for the 'right' reasons.
emily_goddess
Dec. 1st, 2011 02:19 am (UTC)
Aw, I'm so sorry
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